Sometimes we hear something which wasn’t actually said and sometimes we say something which we don’t actually mean to.
Not exactly a big problem just a tiny change of words which is no one’s fault which turn up the world upside down.
Apparently it can just be the choice of words nothing else. Perhaps the translation.
I have a friend whose sense of humor is quite different than normal. Took me a while to get accustomed to it. Now I handle instructions of not dying pretty well.
There is one godmother of mine who literally doesn’t care what I say one look on Skype she knows whether I am doing great or stuck at something.
Not a day goes by when I am not grateful to my parents, sister, brother, friends and other family members but in this case words doesn’t matter everyone knows me well and I know them too. Doesn’t matter what we talk about I know they love me and I love them. A few words don’t come between us. Its not that I talk to them everyday but when I do they know what I mean before I say.
Apparently that’s the reason we never say thank you to family and friends. There is no actual need.
Quite a long list of mistakes I have done because of this translation situation. Expecting everyone to know me well is like expecting it to rain everyday in rainy season. Doesn’t matter how many clouds are up there it isn’t going to rain every single day.
I once tried to help a women carrying four bags on her own in delhi wasn’t a good idea. Not her fault I could have been a bag thief. Who knows 🙂
The point is that your intentions doesn’t matter there is always a scope of things going haywire. Make sure the other person knows you well enough to understand the situation and circumstances rather than just words. You can’t take your words back but at least you can laugh about it later.
And as long as you have a smiling face up nothing really matters.
Of course I am an idiot, stupid, jealous, liar, angry, fool,egoistic, lazy and late sometimes..
I too have prejudice about people I meet and I also suffer from over confidence and loose control of my tongue.
And I am sorry for that. It’s not me it’s the programming.. ( from the movie Tomorrowland), I am built that way. That’s the excuse most often used and I also know it never actually works.
Now why I am saying this? Not so funny story… I was writing a software program a few days ago and I had to make a small change in the workflow but as it turns out it got messed up and then a software glitch cost me two days of work which almost ruined my day and weekend. Took me a while but I did fix it quicker than the last time as I knew every problem I faced last time.
What got me thinking is the fact that a simple virtual mistake had such an impact on my mood, thoughts and sleep for few days I cannot imagine what would have been your condition when I did something wrong to you in real life. Didn’t seemed bigger to me but it could have meant a whole lot to you!
So here I am not just saying sorry but completely owning up my mistakes and if I can do anything to fix it. It will be my honor and privilege.
Expecting a long list of things to do now..:-)
On a positive note I was watching a Harvard graduate speaking about intrinsic value…something which cannot be lost nor gained. It’s something which is always there. I believe I do have some intrinsic values which no matter what would never fade away 🙂 Trust me!
In the mean time monsoon is here and I am on my bike most of the time chasing clouds…. literally!
Had a minor accident which could have been terrible if my bike wouldn’t have saved my bones. I am slowly getting back into programming mode. Something I did way back in 2007 and then lost it completely in between. Took me a while and a whole lot of wisdom from my guardian angels but I think I can say I am pretty much back in the game now. I guess I shouldn’t have left it in the first place but similar to other mistakes I am glad I had a chance to correct it. As the famous Silicon Valley line goes ” Code hard and play harder” I may be able to spend my time pretty well when I am on vacations. And talking about that; one is just down the line. Lots of thoughts about which place to head next… Maybe Nepal.
Until next time..
Mahendra, Alejandro, Mahi, Mahendy and the Dragon kid 🙂